how bad can it be

it had been a really bad period. eversince the outsourced happened, the benefits got removed and now that outsource company bought over by another company, pay got cut and benefits even worse. it’s not just a bit, it’s hundreds lor.. so many monetary commitments without much support from the other one and now with this pay cut, the purse strings got even tighter.

anyway, we spend last weekend at batam. i wasn’t looking forward to that trip cos i will be away from alyssa for a few days. furthermore it was also not a trip for just 2 of us, still got his colleague and his gf. i thought it can be at least a relaxing trip with massages, soak in the pool and nua in the room but we were out the whole day most of the time. they still can take naps in the taxi while going to our destinations while i have to keep my eyes open even how tired i am, call me paranoid but who knows if that driver drive us to somewhere unknown. so instead of feeling recharged when back, i’m even more tired than before going. what a waste of energy, money and time!

yesterday i received some old photos. i nearly forgotten about taking those pics so i decided to go home and look for the rest of them. but couldn’t find them, either i lost them when my harddisk crashed last time or i had backed them up somewhere. but i came across my old blogspot blog backup, i had backed up that blog before i deleted it for some reasons last time. it was dated 6-7 years ago. i couldn’t even remember that there was so many unpleasant happenings last time, before reading the archives all i could remember were happy memories. maybe it’s a bad decision to read back old stuffs. memories should remain as happy instead of sad. nevermind, it’s all in the past and everyone had moved on…

unfair

life is so unfair to me..
what have i done that i don’t deserve a better life?

similarities

i was looking thru some of my old pics and i think i just have to post this!

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the same uninterested look and same fat thighs!!

something new for alyssa

we bought a walker for alyssa today.

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she managed to move around the living room and started grabbing things within her reach!

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so difficult to take a proper pic of us together..

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tips for travelling with baby

hehe.. actually is no tips, just sharing of some of my experiences from this trip.

1. Finish packing your luggage early, preferably few days before the trip.
i did tried started packing early. few days before the trip i already put most of the things that i need in the luggage but just that i haven’t pack them in nicely thinking i can do it the night before or on the day itself cos we are leaving on a night flight so still got a whole day to do that. but my “sticky” girl doesn’t allow me to do so! she kept wanting me to carry her and i can’t go out of her sight. ended up i have to carry her in the baby carrier while doing my packing. so it’s better to finish packing earlier just in case such situation happens.

2. Dress baby in comfy clothes for the flight
especially if you are in a long flight. i dressed alyssa in her PJ cos we were in a night flight and it will be her bedtime anyway. at least it’s long sleeves and long pants as it will be cold on flight.

3. Bring something familiar like her blanket or pillow
they will feel more secure with familiar smell and touch. i read that it will be better to bring some toys to entertain the baby. but alyssa doesn’t seemed to be interested in the toys i brought for her, not even her usual teether toy. she enjoyed playing with anything that is not toys, like magazines, empty plastic bottles/cups and paper. maybe at her age of 8 mths she is not that into toys yet but it will be for an older baby or toddler.

4. Bassinet or Cot seat
i don’t know about other airlines but british airways got another option to select the cot seat other than the bassinet. cot seat is like a car seat where the baby can sit upright or to recline. i think it’s better for shorter flight cos it won’t be that comfortable if the baby wants to sleep. i had tried both and i find that alyssa sleep better in the bassinet. the other babies i had seen using the cot seats also doesn’t sleep that well. but the bassinet is abit small, now alyssa just fits nicely in it, i think a few months later the length will not be enough.

5. Prepare a diaper pouch
get a pouch to put some diapers, changing mat, diaper cream and wet wipes. it’s more convenient to just grab the pouch than to grab a few items to do the diaper change. Airplane toilet is very small and with a tiny changing tray and a wriggling baby, it’s best to bring as little to the toilet as possible. hehe..

6. Hand and mouth wipes
i like pigeon’s hand and mouth wipes and had used up a few packets of it during the trip. it can be used to wipe anything. i used it to wipe alyssa’s mouth, hands, face and body. can use it to wipe any surface that she will come in contact with. i also used it to wipe her pacifier, feeding spoon and bowl. and can even use it during diaper change. 1 kind of wipes for everything. )

7. Milk bottles with room temperature water
i will estimate the number of milk feeds needed during the journey and prepare the number of milk bottles needed then fill them with room temperature water first. eg, if alyssa is taking 150ml of milk, i will prepare 110-120ml of room temperature water in the bottle first and only when her feeding time then i pour in 30-40ml of hot water. it reduce the hassle of pouring of water in the bottles on the flight that have limited space at the seats. furthermore if u are on a night flight, with the lights dimmed and a hungry baby crying away, u need to prepare the milk fast if not the cries will wake all the sleeping people around. anyway u can’t wash and sterilize bottles on flight, so you will still need to prepare the number of bottles needed.

8. Hot water flask on plane
i read from somewhere online that water on plane are not that clean. hahaha.. anyway to be safe i bring my own hot water up the flight. SG custom is not that strict about bringing your own flask with hot water in it if you have a baby with you. but in london they are very strict about it. i was told to go out of the custom to pour away the hot water in the toilet before i can go in again. (they even asked me to taste the water in the milk bottles and they went to test my baby jar food!). anyway for places like that, you can just bring a empty hot water flask in then after going thru the custom, just bring the flask to any restaurant or cafes inside the waiting area they will be able to fill up the flask with hot water for you.

9. Disposable bibs
get disposable bibs for feeding of solid food cos it tends to be very messy. it’s more convenient and you wouldn’t want to carry wet and dirty bibs around for so many hours. so far i only managed to find 2 brands of disposable bibs in SG stores, baby farlin and tommee tippee. baby farlin is cheaper but i find tommee tippee better as the adhesive is stronger.

10. Baby carrier
i bought a new baby carrier not long before the trip. my girl is outgrowing her baby bjorn and i read that hanging on the crotch for long is not good. so i only got the option of ergo or beco as they are more comfy for the baby cos baby will be sitting down instead of hanging at the crotch, and i decided to get beco carrier cos of the design. hehe.. i used the baby carrier almost everyday during the trip. many places are not stroller friendly and some tourist attractions doesn’t allow stroller to be inside. if you are taking the tube in london, you will have to go up and down many flights of stairs so using the carrier will be much better than carrying the stroller up and down the stairs.

11. Baby booster seat
i never regretted buying it. it was also a last minute buy before the trip. it’s very useful especially at places without a baby chair. it’s also small enough to put it in your diaper bag etc. no need to say more, here’s a pic of alyssa in her seat.

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so far only these few points come into my mind. will update if i can think of more. hehehe..

still jetlagging

this is the first day back to work after two weeks of leave. i’m still having jetlag, now got a headache and feels like i’m now sitting in a boat swaying away with my head in the clouds.. this is my first time having jet lag for so long, usually i’m fine after sleeping in for 1 or 2 days. i think cos eversince i’m back i haven’t been sleeping well enough, going to bed late and waking up late plus alyssa had a fever after we got back. fever is gone but she’s still coughing away. my poor baby..

after so many days of wet wipes, diapers and milk powder, now is work work work.. still can’t get the work rhythm back yet so shall blog abit about the trip. hehehe.. anyway past few days so occupied with alyssa that i don’t have the time to do any updates except for uploading the trip pics on facebook and flickr.

like i mentioned earlier that the journey there was bad. we shared the bulkhead seats with another baby and he was super cranky. kept crying throughout the whole flight to london and making my poor baby couldn’t sleep on the flight. everytime she falls asleep and he started crying loudly and she will be woken up and started crying too. ended up i have to carry her in my arms for almost the whole 12hrs+, walking around and making her sleep in my arms away from that crying baby. the stewardess told me that many other passengers also complained about that baby but what can she do except to hand them some ear plugs. initially i was quite pissed cos that mother doesn’t seem to do anything much about her crying baby, she should be the one who carry her baby away and walk around instead of me. she still can watch movie! i was like, wtf! but ok lah.. seeing that she travel alone with her baby and it’s also not easy.

after reaching heathrow airport in london, we were supposed to go to stansted airport for the flight to billund, denmark. but that flight was later in the evening and we reached early in the morning so there was still many hours to go. luckily my sis’s colleague lend us her hotel room where we can rest and shower for that few hours and alyssa get to nap for awhile.

occasionally alyssa got very cranky and kept fussing especially if she can’t get to sleep when she’s tired, but most of the time she enjoyed the trip cos she got to gai gai everyday. except during the car journey in denmark where she got super cranky cos she had to be seated in the car seat throughout. partially cos the car seat was abit cramp for her and also cos we spoilt her in SG that we never make it compulsory for her to sit in her car seat everytime. p

initially we planned to go paris for a day tour during one of the day in london but we booked too late and all the tours were fully booked. just too bad for us.. thought that we can spend our 2nd wedding anniversary in paris P ended up alyssa and me became a moment of arsenal fans.. anyway, we also have a nice evening with a nice view of the tower bridge and the big ben with nice cool weather. hehehe.. the weather in london was horrid! i don’t understand why both time when i’m in london it will be their hottest days of the year! the weather just as hot as in sg with just some cooler breeze.

didn’t get to shop much but i think i’m really good, imagine carrying alyssa in her carrier still can shop for clothes and try out shoes. i don’t see people there carrying their baby in bb carriers, usually they use a stroller. so i got people staring at me when i walked around the stores with the baby carrier. i think after this trip i got stronger shoulders and arms. hahaha.. i can walk down oxford street carrying a 8kg, is like walking from orchard mrt station to dhouby ghaut. i don’t think i want to do that in SG.

flight back to SG was really good. the other baby beside us sleep thru the flight, so did alyssa. both aloy and me managed to sleep quite abit.

overall the whole trip was a great experience but i don’t think i will bring alyssa to travel anywhere far soon. maybe till she’s older. hehehe..

too many pics to share.. check out my photo albums in facebook or flickr. kekeke!!

Denmark/London trip 09: Journey to Denmark
Denmark/London Trip 09: Denmark Day 01
Denmark/London Trip 09: Denmark Day 02
Denmark/London Trip 09: Denmark Day 03
Denmark/London Trip 09: London Day 01
Denmark/London Trip 09: London Day 02
Denmark/London Trip 09: London Day 03
Denmark/London Trip 09: Back to SG

some stuffs that we bought, minus those that we are planning to give as gifts and the stuffs from arsenal stadium.

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things from denmark: hans christian andersen 80 fairy tales book and marimekko jar and glasses

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things from london: top left, stuffs for aloy and me. top right, stuffs for alyssa. bottom left, chocolates! bottom right, shoes! (yellow lights in my room makes the pics yucky)

we survived!

it was a tough flight! will blog about it later. but anyway we survived the whole journey of about 30hrs to denmark, including the waiting and transiting time. alyssa super cranky!! hahaha..

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see ya!

we are off for our trip. see ya in 10 days time. )

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